As I sat here today watching Oprah, it just kinda hit all the things I take advantage of and take for granted in my life. It was all about these kids that are miracle babies and one story was about a family that had a little boy named Eliot and he only lived for 99 days. I sat there with tears in my eyes thinking how could a mom go on living with having lost a child? I don't know what I would do if anything happened to my children they are my life. It spiraled in to everything else in my life. All the material things I have or want. And really what is the point are those the things that really make me happy? Well at that moment I guess, but at the end of the day it's watching my husband, and the love of my life play with our beautiful kids and watching them get so so excited when daddy gets home from work. That is what really matters. Not what I drive or the house I live in. It's what Justin and I build together and cherishing every minute of every day. Taking the good with the bad and learning from it all. Keeping this blog and being able to go back and read one of my first posts and it putting a smile on my face even though at that point I was hating my husband. (haha)
Just wanted to remind us all with everything going on in our country right now, lets not get so wrapped up in it all and forget about the little things in life that we may miss.
(you gotta love Oprah)
I'm just about ready to give up! For my sanity and my sons. I don't know if it's just my child or what but he does not want to give up the diapers! Anyone have any ideas for me??? Ya I don't know really what to do? I've been told that if they aren't ready don't do it cause it's training you not them. But I just sit here wondering is he ready and I"m the one getting flustered?? My biggest problem is he has never actually gone in the potty, he has gone outside (getting a little cold for this one now) and as soon as he gets off the toilet he'll pee. :( If he would actually go at least one time then I would take a step back and be like ok I know he knows what to do. But on the flip side I know he knows that is where we go potty. Oh my gosh I just don't know what to do. I hate potty training! He just got in to the bath so after the bath I'm going to do the same thing I have been doing for the last couple of days. I have a half naked boy running around the house. lol. So I guess we will see how the day goes. I guess you could say I have a pretty strong willed child cause I have the potty chart going and the bribing with candy, it was even his favorite super hero gummies and ya we got nothin!! He would rather not have it at all then sit or stand at the toilet. There is this one site I've looked at online that guarantees to have your child potty trained in 3 days. I'm very close to ordering it! I really hope Averee is way easier!
Today was Ryder and Mommy Halloween craft day. Well that is while Averee was napping. :) So we did foam cut outs of bats, which hats and ghost's and did some coloring. But our big project was making a "spooky tree" for our center piece on our dining room table. We have a big carving party at our house this weekend so I have been trying to get the house all ready and do some special things for the kids that are coming. I have to say our tree turned out so good!! We had a blast doing it and I thought I would share our beautiful, creative work. (just keep in mind I was doing this for the kids not adults) :)
I started watching a 2 year old little girl a few weeks ago and it's cracking me up to watch the difference between a little boy and a little girl. I'm so used to cars, sports, and dinosaurs that I was in awww when I realized what Madison was doing and I loved it! It's such a little mommy thing to do. She has taken her care bear and put her in Averee's high chair and got a bowl and a little spoon and was feeding her, her lunch. SO CUTE!!

Oh my sweet sweet little boy....
We are sitting on the couch and Ryder "tutted" on my hand. (yes we call it tut in my house, at least for now) Anyway I looked down at him in surprise and said "you tutted on my hand. He started cracking up and says "No mom it's just bubbles".
Looking through a child's eyes and understanding their thoughts. Has to brighten anyones day.
Why do they have to grow so fast??? I swear Ryder was just my little baby last week? He is getting so big so fast. On one hand I love it but on the other I wish I could just stick him in a box and not let him grow anymore.
My son can be a handful most of the time, he goes non stop and most days by bed time I'm ready to pull my hair out or just collapse, but I really wouldn't change a thing about him. He keeps us on our toes every minute of every day! (It's good for Justin, hes so quiet and laid back it puts the spark under his bum to get him going) :) Ryder's newest thing is every morning he wakes up and comes out and looks at me with his sleepy sleepy eyes still holding his blankie and says " mommy I need my hot coffee please" Yes he asks me for hot coffee every morning. lol... He thinks it's his hot coffee and I give him some hot coco with marshmallows. I love the little things they come up with. He makes me laugh every day.
Can I just let this out for a minute!
I am so sick of people close to me (not mentioning any names) sending me emails and trying to tell me how wrong I am for my choice of President. But they are on me just about every day about voting for Obama, and I'm so freakin sick and tired of it!! My lovely husband brought home and email for me to read about him after they were all talking about it at work, and he informed them all that I'm voting for Obama and they are all voting for McCain. Now this email was all about how he paid for his tuition for all the schools he has gone to and pretty much saying he is a terrorist (Maybe it has circled your way). Now I can look past it all but for god sake leave me alone!! I know who I'm voting for and I'm sorry if you don't agree with it.
But really are you all going to believe everything that comes off the Internet!!! It's a free country I can vote for who ever I choose, and same to all of you.
Finally! Averee has her first tooth that has broke through. We have been trying to wait patiently for these little teeth to come through, but it has been a hard frustrating last couple months. Ryder was 4 1/2 months when he got his first tooth and he was a pretty good teether. But my sweet little A will be 7 months tomorrow and has not been so sweet... She would scream, cry, and fuss all day and night when those teeth would try to come up, finally she has her first tooth. The bottom left has broke through!!
Can't believe I'm going to admit this out loud but I have found a minivan that I want to get. YES I SAID MINIVAN.... I have broke down and it just seems like the best way for me to go. Having my kids and other kids with me it really is the only thing that makes the most since.. So I have found one that I'm hoping we can get this weekend. We have sold the pickup, and now off to get the super mom car! lol.....
Please no body make fun of me.... :)
I know this may all shock you but last night I was totally annoyed that my husband HAD to watch the beaver game! Now don't get me wrong I am a huge beaver fan and I'm one of the first to turn on the games, BUT last night was also the V.P. debate... Now I"m usually not as involved as I am this year. But this year has sucked me in and I can't get enough. This is driving my husband crazy. Not only for the fact of it being politics, but this year we are voting on different sides. So you can only imagine what kind of conversations that are going on in our house hold. Needless to say the beavers lost and I was pissed I had to miss the debate for a lame ass game!
Happy voting ya'all...
Still catching my breath, and trying to calm myself...
I just had a freak out moment. Well if felt way longer then a moment. I was sitting here on the computer and went to check on Ryder. He was playing in the back yard (my computer is right next to the sliding glass door to go out back.) I go out there and don't see him. came inside didn't see him, after searching each room, panic mode kicked in! I"m yelling his name re-looking in every room, in the bathrooms, his toy box (he enjoys climbing in it), and then went out front he can open the screen door now but has never gone out with out one of us going with him. Ran back to the back yard yelling his name. He was gone......
I was on the verge of tears, my heart pounding out of my chest, going what do I do next. In the mean while on my t.v. is Oprah and it's about this mom who forgot about her baby in the car and she died. So everything is going thru my mind, litarly everything. Finally I went back outside to the back yard and I"m yelling his name and he jumps out from the side of the house covered in dirt! I said honey where have you been? You scared momma so much! He showed me where he was and my sweet little boy was hiding behind the dog house on the side of the house. He was ducked down behind it, and heard me yelling his name! I even looked on that side, that is how well he was hiding!!!
Oh the fun times of a 2 year old.....